Life

I never…words from a bio/step mom that hit home.

This morning I received a letter from a fan of my Facebook page named Bobbie Ann Phillips and as I read it I knew instantly this needed to be read by all of you. This is her story and its an honest account of how it feels, of what we don't expect, our fears and… Continue reading I never…words from a bio/step mom that hit home.

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Marriage & Divorce

Nine secrets your spouse’s ex may not tell you.

Do you have an ex in your life, which makes your life hell? Does it feel like even though your spouse got divorced, that they are still married? Would it surprise you to find out that you put up with more than you have to, simply because the ex says you do? Below are nine… Continue reading Nine secrets your spouse’s ex may not tell you.

Father, Judgment and Loss, Life, Marriage & Divorce, Stepparents

Divorce & the StepMom

Have you ever awoke from a dream that was so intense and real that your heart breaks as you open your eyes? I dreamt about him again, and its such a double edged sword because even though for the duration of the dream we're together again, there is always the waking up that rips him… Continue reading Divorce & the StepMom

Abuse, Father, Judgment and Loss, Love, Marriage & Divorce, Parenting, Stepparents

Children need it..and so do we.

    There are always those painful aching parts in a movie where they touch your inner most fears or make you relive a memory that you hoped so desperately to forget. Every scene in a movie about a parents relationship with their child, gets me. It's as if the right side of my chest… Continue reading Children need it..and so do we.

Love, Parenting, Stepparents

We did it all backwards..and it works!

My mother-in-law will appear in alot of my posts, so we will shorten her to MIL. For you mind in the gutter readers, notice there is not a F at the end, although some may beg to differ 🙂 Now, eyes straight ahead, and back to the sublect at hand. The normal process for life… Continue reading We did it all backwards..and it works!

Parenting

This StepMom has somethings to say…stay close, read plenty and share.

This page is created to with respect for StepMoms, StepDads and all StepFamilies. We are so often treated as the enemy, treated like we are not good enough or able to love enough. Our work is hardest because we almost always have someone hoping we fail. Here's to those of us, who won't fail and… Continue reading This StepMom has somethings to say…stay close, read plenty and share.