It is true, you may be scared and uneasy maybe even willing to self sabotage it once it arrives – but the ability to love someone new, a last ditch effort of maybe this could be the elusive one – is there inside everyone. But, why? Why not just completely rule out the possibility of love, why don’t our fears of rejection and heartbreak – keep our hearts locked down tight? And, what do we gain from loving again?
Read More at http://www.divorcedmoms.com/articles/why-im-not-afraid-to-love-again
Be patient for the man that understands and expects for your children to come first. Wait for the man that grabs your hand and slow dances with you in the kitchen, to music he sings or hums. Invest in the man that never questions your worth, and makes time for you without you requesting it. Give your heart to the guy, that when you are craving something sweet, brings you bags full of every candy you love. Share your heart only with the man, that shows he loves you, as well as tells you. Confide in the man who wants to help diminish your insecurities, and will talk for hours to make you feel better. Grow with the man that brings you flowers for no other reason than to see you smile. Appreciate the man, that shows you there is excitement in not planning, and enjoying what each day has to offer. Believe when this man tells you, that you are beautiful – because you truly are. Allow yourself to be silly with him, and enjoy making him laugh – because being friends is important too. Finally, trust the man who can admit he makes mistakes, and forgives when you do the same. Be patient, wait, invest, give, share, confide, grow, appreciate, believe, allow and trust that this man will find you – because he is worth the wait.