You deserve better.

The worst part is that there are people who think this is what they deserve! That this is the best they can have. That no one will love them outside of this relationship. That they have nothing to offer the world, no dream to chase, no voice to be heard, or gift to be shared. They look in the mirror and see failure, ridicule, embarrassment and despair, when instead they should see strength, honor, integrity, beauty, hope and success. And love, damn it! You should look at yourself in that mirror and see LOVE, for yourself.

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Am I a product of Reverse Psychology?

Is it possible I get nothing from my family but reverse psychology? Is it possible that every lesson I have learned in how to be who I am -- was solely by watching them be who they should not have been? Do you ever feel as if you do not have a place, a place of … Continue reading Am I a product of Reverse Psychology?

Packing my bags when I need to stay…

"I'd be packing my bags when I need to stay, I'd be chasing every breeze that blows my way" Toby Mac For years, I was a strong believer in "If you aren't happy get out" - so much so in fact that I did just that. If things weren't the way I had expected, or … Continue reading Packing my bags when I need to stay…

Excuse me, do I know you?

Its incredible how the mind and heart can build up a moment before its about to happen. Its as if a protective shield starts to encase you, or reminders of what to say or not say, how to act, or not to act run wild in your brain. This didn't happen with me, maybe I … Continue reading Excuse me, do I know you?